On the bright side, I learned I don’t need to take shit from anybody bc I don’t need them to survive and I definitely don’t need you.

The worst thing is finding out you wasted so much time and energy on someone who turned out to be a piece of shit

Lmao when u block someone on ig but they still try to follow you on tumblr months later lol

dancybutt:

“what state do you live in?”

constant anxiety

deathtml:

kinda wanna delete all of my social media and disappear

officialcommanderlexa:

my life is basically just a constant cycle of finally getting past the thing i was stressing about and then immediately finding something else to stress me out even if it isn’t happening for another 4 months

brassparker:

The Disney Channel has like four versions of the same show. How many quirky blonde/brunette bff combos who wear five layers over and under a sundress and leggings and crush on the blandest white boy tween can there be? Oh yeah, this one can time travel.

I miss the old me more than I miss you

hypnomaniac:

i literally do not understand why anybody would cheat on their partner like if you really feel the need to be with somebody else in the same way as you currently are with your partner, be a decent human being and end your relationship to save the person you supposedly love a whole world of unnecessary pain rather than be a piece of shit and break their heart 

Reblog if it is okay to start talking to you.

What I learned in 2015

canyouimagine-thatlove:

Compiled from my phone’s notes over the last 365 days.

1. Sometimes the best answer isn’t always the right one.
2. You need to trust people to an extent. Getting hurt is a part of life.
3. Down time is necessary or you will go insane.
4. Stay up late, but don’t waste your days. Wasting time is for those who don’t realize how much they have left.
5. Work every day- progress is progress.
6. Always have a phone charger and gum.
7. People will talk, change their minds, and your friends will betray and hurt you. It’s not your fault. It’s important to know the difference between when it is and when it isn’t- those who do this aren’t your friends. Never sink to their level, be bigger, move on, and spend no time on them.
8. Make your own opinions.
9. Perseverance is key.
10. The brave don’t live forever, but the cautious don’t live at all.
11. It’s not your job to fix people, it’s your job t hold their hand while they fix themselves.
12. People have to accept that they live and die by their choices.
13. If it’s important, you find a way. If not, you find an excuse.
14. You have to put forth as much effort as they do.
15. If someone consistently picks on another for no reason, they’ll do the same to you Recognize these people, and don’t befriend them. They won’t be a friend to you unless they think you’re like them.
16. Be the kind of person you want to meet.
17. You know very little.
18. Don’t doubt what you do know.
19. Be honest and fix your messes.
20. “I never look back- it distracts from the now.”
21. Treat everyone like your best friend, and if they don’t deserve it, treat them like the uncle you don’t like but have to love.
22. “And if I’m never tied to anything, I’ll never be free.”
23. Keep your mouth shut.
24. Be careful who you vent to.
25. Respect people that tell you what you don’t want to hear, don’t get angry.
26. Tell people how you feel.
27. Just because you feel like you’re crashing, doesn’t mean it’s the end.
28. You need people who will tell you the truth.
29. If something is hurting or confusing you, get rid of it.
30. Things can be worse.
31. Take the chance. If you mess up, you mess up.
32. You’re going to screw up. And you’re going to learn from it, drag yourself out of your own mess, eat some ice cream, and move on.
33. The hard thing sets you free.
34. People never stop talking.
35. Some days suck. Don’t let it kill you. Also stop cracking mirrors and making jokes about bad luck.
36. Cherish both those who validate you and those who don’t hide anything. You need both.
37. Apologies don’t mean trust.
38. Stop stressing about things you don’t have under your control.
39. Breaking doesn’t mean the universe hates you.
40. Stop romanticizing a lack of sleep.
41. Not agreeing with what someone wants to do won’t stop them from doing it.
42. Do the stupid thing. Learn from it.
43. Knwoing how much something will hurt doesn’t prepare you for how it actually feels.
44. Timing is important. It’s not your fault.
45. Let go. Please.
46. It’s going to hurt.
47. Doing typical high school things isn’t uncool. You’re not above anyone.
48. Sometimes you are. Stay true to yourself. Do what you want to do.
49. Not dancing doesn’t make you cool.
50. It’s never too late to branch out.
51. Everything is as fun as you make it.
52. You’re hot. Own it.
53. Treat everyone like your friend and they will be.
54. It’s not lame to be excited about things.
55. Don’t treat people badly when you’re stressed or upset.
56. Be the sunshine.
57. You don’t miss them, you miss how it used to be. Everything seems better from far away.
58. Girls get insecure and jealous. Don’t take it personally.
59. Know your limits.
60. Let them go.
61. Do whatever you want, but be happy with your choices.
62. You never really know how lucky you are.
63. 8 hours a night. SLEEP.
64. Take care of yourself.
65. Know what you’ve got going for you.
66. Liking the attention isn’t the same as liking someone.
67. A year changes a lot.
68. Don’t give up on anything unless it is harming you or no longer makes you happy.
69. Remember everyone is just trying to survive.
70. Remember everyone has their own backstory, just as complicated as yours.
71. Be the ideal person you would fall in love with.